Like you, I have read many books and articles on this issue. I have to say that your words seem to be the most focused, relevant, and encouraging of anything I've read. You take the matter seriously and really help me to believe that this is worth trying for and that I can do this! By the way - I really like the serious, focused approach you take toward this issue. I agree that this is a really important goal worth striving for and most women can achieve it and that everyone (our partners, porn, the media) should take this goal more seriously as well. Like you mention, so much porn shows women in poses where orgasms will be impossible. It is shocking and outrageous to think that we accept that 70% of women out there don't orgasm during intercourse.

H. Buchanon, Ohio

"I bought a copy and read through all of the guide. I think it's great! I would totally agree with the method that you describe. It works for me! I always use fantasies when I am alone and this section is what I personally found most interesting. I have at times fantasized about scenerios and have also felt guilty and wrong about it. It was reassuring to hear that I was not a alone in doing that. Also, I found it really interesting what you said about the circumstances of your first sexual encounter. I often fantasize about a situation that occurred when I was in elementary school involving kids going into a closet for a period of time. I never did get to go into the closet with anyone, but now use that as part of my fantasies—very interesting! So thanks for reassuring me that I'm not a freak!! LOL"

S. Marshall, Ontario

“Wow, this book really offered a neat perspective on the reasons why many woman are not having an orgasm and how to really utilize the information to pleasure women I have intercourse with. It says it’s a woman’s guide, but a lot of men would benefit from it not only from an understanding perspective but really to use the information as power to pleasure your partner. Thanks so much.”

D. Jeffries, Florida